LISTEN WELL
Managers need to become better listeners. In fact, not only is it a good managerial skill, it’s also a key leadership skill. I firmly believe that the higher up you are in an organisation, the more listening you should do. But listening can be really hard! All the distractions of the day clog our minds. Read my tips on how to stay focused on the 1-on-1 interactions that count.
PRACTICAL LEADERSHIP TIP - BE PRESENT
When a 1 on 1 with a direct report comes around, remember: the most important task in your calendar is to be present, right now! You have both put aside the time to be here and meet. It isn’t urgent, but it is critically important. Use the time you have put aside for the intended purpose. Shut the laptop, turn your phone off, and move these devices aside.
PRACTICAL LEADERSHIP TIP - MAKE TIME FOR YOUR PEOPLE
As managers, you are responsible and accountable for the performance, growth, and on-the-job wellbeing of your direct reports. The 1-on-1 meeting is the simplest and most effective way to invest time in your direct reports. This investment will pay dividends in almost every area of your business.
MANAGING PEOPLE IS NOT EASY!
Fourteen years ago, I decided to leave the world of primary teaching and accept a role in a global recruitment firm. Six months later, after a series of 1-on-1 conversations with my manager, an opportunity opened up. I took a promotion and found myself managing the local branch. What a learning experience!
THROWN IN THE DEEP END
I often find people are promoted due to their technical abilities. This seems to make sense – the person who performs best in their role is rewarded with more responsibility. The problem is, their expertise is in the discipline they just left – not in leading people. Most new managers simply lack the necessary skills and tools to successfully manage and lead the people they have been promoted to oversee.
LEADING OR MANAGING?
The qualities of a leader have been long vaunted as crucial and important in our businesses. Management is seen as a little old fashioned but it appears that we have forgotten about the basic fundamentals of management skills which help our people succeed. Managerial expertise is a necessary complement to the leadership skills we’re so hung up on. Without the former, the latter won’t succeed.